Venus is often associated with what we love, what we desire and what brings us pleasure.

But there can also be parts of our Venus that we learn to disconnect from.

Perhaps you were taught that certain desires were too much. Perhaps you learned to make yourself smaller, more agreeable or more acceptable. Perhaps you became disconnected from pleasure because you were more focused on being wanted than asking yourself what you actually wanted.

The shadow of Venus can show up in many different ways.

It can be found in the things we feel ashamed of wanting, the qualities we believe we shouldn’t express, the ways we seek validation, or the parts of ourselves we have learned to suppress in order to feel accepted.

This is where Lilith can become particularly useful.

Rather than treating Lilith as a separate subject, we can bring her into the conversation where she helps us understand the places where desire, femininity, sexuality, self expression or personal power may have been rejected, suppressed or pushed into the shadows.

The purpose is not to label these parts of yourself as good or bad.

It is to understand them.

Because what we refuse to acknowledge doesn’t necessarily disappear.

Sometimes it simply finds another way to speak.

Your natural magnetism isn’t something you need to manufacture.

It is often found in the qualities that come most naturally to you, particularly the qualities you may have overlooked because they feel too ordinary, too vulnerable, too much or simply too familiar to recognise as powerful.

Your Venus can show us what you naturally radiate when you are not trying to perform desirability.

What do you genuinely enjoy?

What makes you feel most alive?

What qualities do you naturally express when you feel safe enough to be yourself?

What do you value enough to choose, even when nobody else is watching?

And where have you been trying to become desirable rather than allowing yourself to actually experience desire?

We’ll explore these questions through your chart and begin to identify what your particular Venusian energy looks like when you are not disconnected from it.

Because magnetism is not simply about how other people perceive you.

It is also about your relationship with your own desire.

This is not about spending 90 minutes analysing your Venus and then leaving with a list of personality traits.

Understanding is only the beginning.

The more interesting question is what you do with what you discover.

How can you reconnect with the qualities your Venus naturally holds?

What desires have you learned to minimise?

Where might you be giving more than you are receiving?

What would change if you allowed yourself to value what you actually value?

What would it look like to make choices from genuine desire rather than from the need to be approved of, wanted or accepted?

And how could you begin expressing more of your natural Venusian energy in the way you dress, create, love, relate, receive, spend, choose and move through the world?

The aim is not simply to understand your Venus placement.

It is to begin living in closer relationship with what your Venus is showing you.

To move from understanding into choice.

From disconnection into recognition.

And from recognition into embodiment.

• Your Venus sign, house and relevant aspects
• The houses your Venus rules
• Love, desire and attraction
• Pleasure and what brings you alive
• Creativity and self expression
• Value and self worth
• Receiving and money where relevant
• Lilith and the shadow of Venus
• Desire and the parts of yourself you may have disconnected from
• Your natural magnetism
• Giving and receiving
• Patterns around validation and desirability
• Your relationship with pleasure, beauty and value
• The qualities your Venus naturally expresses
• Moving from understanding into conscious embodiment

One 90 minute personalised astrology session, prepared specifically around your Venus and the themes you want to explore.

I will focus particularly on your Venus and the other parts of the chart that help us understand her more fully. This is not a full birth chart reading, and we will not try to interpret every area of your life.

Instead, we will follow the Venusian thread through your chart and your lived experience, exploring the themes that are most relevant to you.

You will leave with a deeper understanding of your Venus, the qualities you naturally carry, the places where you may have disconnected from your desires or values, and how you can begin to work with and embody more of your natural Venusian energy.

Before We Meet

After booking, you’ll receive a short questionnaire by email. Your answers will give me a deeper understanding of your personal experiences and the patterns you’re noticing, allowing us to spend less time gathering background information during your reading and more time exploring your chart, its deeper themes and what they mean in your life.